It is a relationship that is flexible enough to allow for change and that is constantly being renegotiated in the light of changing needs, consensus in decision-making, acceptance and encouragement of individual growth, and openness to new possibilities for growth.
Tristan Taoromino
Counselling in Kitchener, Waterloo, & Cambridge for ENM and Polyamorous Relationships
Ethical Non Monogamy (ENM) and Polyamory are relationship orientations that are enjoyed by many. It can be nerve-racking to find the right fit, particularly when you are unsure about whether or not the therapist has experience working with non monogamous clients and will understand a significant part of your life.
In our work with ENM and Polyamorous clients, we hold an understanding and explore with you the potential influences of mononormativity (the idea that romatic/sexual relationships are only normal between two people) on your concerns and goals.
Common reasons some people seek
Non-Monogamous Therapy
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Transitioning from monogamy to Non-Monogamy
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Communication about boundaries
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Healing from boundary crossing
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Addressing experiences of marginalization
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Jealousy and insecurity within the relationship
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Balancing the needs and wants of multiple partners
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Navigating societal stigma and discrimination
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Establishing and maintaining trust and honesty
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Addressing any power imbalances within the relationship
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Resolving conflicts that may arise within the polyamorous dynamic
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Managing feelings of guilt or shame
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Finding and building a supportive community
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Helping partners to cope with potential reactions from family and friends.
